About a week before the anniversary, a song that I hadn’t heard for some time was stuck in my head for two solid days. I didn’t give it much thought at first, just figured it was your standard earworm. I can be quite slow on the uptake when it comes these things, so towards the middle of day two I thought to myself, “Huh. Maybe I ought to pay attention to this.” The song was Howard Jones’ “Hide and Seek”. The song expresses ideas about how and why we are here (I’ve included the lyrics on the YouTube page), but after paying attention and considering the negative mindset I’d been fighting, I felt strongly that it had an additional meaning for me – that it was a message from Dad saying there’s no need to keep seeking him when he’s always here with me.
The Impossible Dream
To dream the impossible dream
To fight the unbeatable foe
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go
To right the unrightable wrong
To love pure and chaste from afar
To try when your arms are too weary
To reach the unreachable star
This is my quest, to follow that star
No matter how hopeless, no matter how far
To fight for the right, without question or pause
To be willing to march into Hell for a heavenly cause
And I know if I’ll only be true to this glorious quest,
That my heart will lie peaceful and calm,
When I’m laid to my rest
And the world will be better for this
That one man scorned and covered with scars,
Still strove with his last ounce of courage,
To reach the unreachable star
I’ve been reading the book The Future We Choose, and the authors discuss the importance of stubborn optimism when tackling the climate crisis, so why shouldn’t we adopt this mindset for all the challenges our world faces?
I believe the message in “The Impossible Dream” was Dad once again nudging me out of my funk, reminding me that together we’re capable of great things. Humankind has gone through many dark times, but our stubborn optimism for something better keeps us pushing forward and out of those dark times, no matter how shit showy things get. Because really, what choice do we have when we ask ourselves what kind of future we want for our kids and grandkids?
It makes me think of the following passage that circulated online last year, author unknown.
Imagine you were born in 1900.
When you’re 14, World War I begins and ends when you’re 18 with 22 million dead.
Soon after a global pandemic, the Spanish Flu, appears, killing 50 million people. And you’re alive and 20 years old.
When you’re 29 you survive the global economic crisis that started with the collapse of the New York Stock Exchange, causing inflation, unemployment and famine.
When you’re 33 years old, the Nazis come to power.
When you’re 39, World War II begins and ends when you’re 45 years old with a 60 million dead. In the Holocaust 6 million Jews die.
When you’re 52, the Korean War begins.
When you’re 64, the Vietnam War begins and ends when you’re 75.
A child born in 1985 thinks his grandparents have no idea how difficult life is, but they have survived several wars and catastrophes.
Today we have all the comforts in a new world, amid a new pandemic. But we complain because we need to wear masks. We complain because we must stay confined to our homes where we have food, electricity, running water, wifi, even Netflix! None of that existed back in the day. But humanity survived those circumstances and never lost their joy of living.
A small change in our perspective can generate miracles. We should be thankful that we are alive. We should do everything we need to do to protect and help each other.
Shelly Hickman 
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